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Horse Holiday Costume Contest: Win a World Equestrian Brands Stocking Stuffed With $275 in Goodies

Photo courtesy of World Equestrian Brands.

Has your horse been naughty or nice this year? Either way, they have a chance to win a stocking from World Equestrian Brands stuffed with $275 in goodies, including:

How to win:

Show us a photo of your horse decked out for the holidays! Share in the Facebook comments section or email [email protected]. Contest entries are limited to the U.S. only, please.

We’ll put the top 10 to a reader vote on Friday, and announce the winner next week!

Go Eventing.

 

 

Eventers Ring in Holiday Spirit at Maryland Horse Trials Donation Derby

Emmilie Davis and Stealing Kisses at The Maryland Horse Trials @ Loch Moy Farm Sunday Donation Derby.

Posted by Amy Flemming Waters Photography on Tuesday, December 10, 2019

‘Tis the season to embarrass our horses with festive costumes! The Area II crowd did it right this weekend, competing in full costume at the Maryland Horse Trials Annual Donation Derby. This year, funds supported Frederick Friends of Our County Animal Shelter.

With Santa hats, jingle bells and tinsel aplenty, riders tackled derby courses from low logs through Modified level on Loch Moy Farm’s all weather footing.

The highly coveted Best Holiday Spirit Award went to Janelle Stewart riding Cathy Hare’s Diamond Junction. “Colin” was quite literally transformed into a one horse open sleigh. Check out their costume and many others below through your collection of social media posts.

Many thanks photographers Maya Kuntze and Amy Flemming-Waters of AFW Photography — check out Amy’s website for more fun pics of the event.

Janelle Stewart and Diamond Junction

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Bruce’s Field to Host Inaugural Carolina Winter Circuit H/J Series in January

Photo courtesy of the Aiken Horse Park Foundation.

Winter is the perfect time to hone those show jumping skills, and eventers based in Aiken will have an abundance of opportunities to test their chops in the show ring with the introduction of the Carolina Winter Circuit at Bruce’s Field in January 2020.

The Aiken Horse Park Foundation has announced that through a partnership with Equus Events Inc. and Progressive Show Jumping Inc., Bruce’s Field will play host to PSJ’s Winter Classic I & II, followed by Equus Events’ Aiken Winter Premier, and Aiken Winter Encore providing four weeks of USEF National A rated horse shows.

In addition to being an opportunity for eventers, area hunter/jumper competitors who have previously needed to head south to winter circuits in Florida will now have a genuine option to stay in Aiken this winter.

“It has been my mission to enhance the winter show season by creating a series of shows in this region that don’t conflict with existing shows and will provide a compelling reason for exhibitors to stay in the Carolinas,” says Rick Cram, President and Founder of Progressive Show Jumping Inc. Rick and his wife Cathy have owned and operated the horse show management company Progressive Show Jumping Inc., for 33 years, producing hunter/jumper shows of all levels throughout North and South Carolina.

“We are extremely lucky to have such an amazing facility in Aiken as Bruce’s Field,” adds John Paul Godard, President of Equus Events Inc. JP and his wife, Megan, produce premier hunter and jumper events throughout the southeast. “To be able to host additional back to back shows here this winter will benefit the region’s exhibitors and act as an economic boost to our community.”

AIKEN WINTER CLASSIC I
USEF National
January 3 – 5, 2020
Contact: 803-649-3505, [email protected]

AIKEN WINTER CLASSIC II
USEF National
January 10 – 12, 2020
Contact: 803-649-3505, [email protected]

AIKEN WINTER PREMIER
USEF National
January 17 – 19, 2020
Contact: equusevents.com, [email protected]

AIKEN WINTER ENCORE
USEF National
January 31 – February 2, 2020
Contact: equusevents.com, [email protected]

In addition to show jumping, eventers can finess their dressage skills this winter at Aiken Horse Park as well:

2020 DRESSAGE IN THE PARK
USEF/USDF  Level 3
January 25 – 26, 2020
PRIZE LIST

DRESSAGE AT BRUCE’S FIELD
USEF/USDF  Level 3
February 15 – 16, 2020
PRIZE LIST

DRESSAGE IN THE SPRING
USEF/USDF Level 3
May 16 – 17, 2020
PRIZE LIST

Another Bruce’s Field event to look forward to is, of course, the second iteration of the $50,000 LiftMaster Grand-Prix Eventing at Bruce’s Field, taking place Feb. 28-29, 2020. Dressage and show jumping will take place on Friday the 28th and cross country will take place on Saturday the 29th. General admission tickets are on sale online for $25.

Need a little eventing fix right now or want to see what the LiftMaster Eventing Grand-Prix is all about? You can watch a replays of all phases of last year’s event right here and revisit all of EN’s coverage here.

Learn more and view a complete calendar of events at Aiken Horse Park.

Meet the Winner (& Pint-Sized Runner-Up) of the Zandonà ‘No Scope, No Hope’ Challenge

Toni Bearda and Charlie, winners of the Zandonà ‘No Scope, No Hope’ Photo Challenge. Photo courtesy of Toni Bearda.

Last week’s Zandonà ‘No Scope, No Hope’ Photo Challenge had a huge reader response, with hundreds of photos of your high-flying horses submitted from around the world. We put the finalists to a reader vote, and 3,141 votes earned Toni Bearda and her horse Charlie the big win.

We asked Toni, of New South Wales, Australia, to tell us more about her horse. Apparently, this big effort wasn’t just a one-off! Here’s another, from the same competition last month.

Photo courtesy of Toni Bearda.

“I think he’s telling us we need to step up to the next level!” Toni says.

Congrats to this pair both on their win — we’ll be shipping them a front pair of Italian-made, highly protective and breathable boots Zandonà Carbon Air Front X-Country Boots (retail value: $237.15). It seems like a good omen for their new partnership, which became official just a couple weeks ago.

“I have had Charlie since the start of this year as a lease-to-buy and only just bought him on the 25th of November for my birthday present to myself!” Toni says of the 9-year-old OTTB gelding. His race name was Strats Lore (Strategic x Cats Galore), but his show name is now Up To No Good.

“We will be going out to as many eventing events as we can this coming year as we only got to three this year,” Toni says. “Charlie is a very smart and friendly boy who lives for treats and affection. My equestrian instagram is @antoniabearda for anyone who wants to follow our journey together.”

Photo by Nicola Marins.

Runner-up “Bushy,” owned by Nicola Marins of the UK, held the lead for much of the poll and ended up in 2nd with an impressive 1,458 votes. We had to find out more about this 12.2-hand pocket rocket!

Nicola shares his story: “We bought Bushy about two years ago after the sad and untimely passing of my Son, Valentino’s previous elderly saint pony Gali. We were understandably heart broken and so Bushy had big boots to fill.

“I first saw a video of this cracking little brown Welsh pony loose jumping, circulating the web. He was for sale and based with agent friends on the south coast. As you can see from his picture he wasn’t exactly the quiet type and totally unproven ridden let alone around children. I kept watching the video over and over and over for months. I couldn’t get this brown pony out of my mind, but we didn’t need a young unbroken, unproven pony for my then 3-year-old son. Insanity even to consider it right?”

Photo courtesy of Nicola Marins.

“So sense ruled and I didn’t take it any further than a whimsical musing and a mention to my husband (happens to be a professional producer specialising in stallions). Months passed by and suddenly our aged pony had a catastrophic stroke one night and we were left heartbroken. My son bounced back the quickest and we began out pony search to replace our loss.

“I discounted so many without viewing and felt unusually nervous about this next purchase. A pony this size is not my area of expertise and I cannot ride it to straighten out any quirks. So my son is literally at the mercy of the pony and its temperament. Our previous pony came from Mike and Emma Phillips, the then owners of Quainton Stud UK — my husband taught their daughter on him some 10 years prior so we knew he could be thoroughly trusted.”

Photo courtesy of Nicola Marins.

“The pony search surfaced so many ‘what ifs’ and many good ponies were either gone before I could visit or never hit the open market with a long list of children in line waiting for the hand-me-down. I felt hopeless.

“So, we decided to view this little brown Welsh pony on the south coast. We bundled into the car and drove for two hours south — now normally I would have taken the trailer and done the deal there and then, I’m pretty decisive like that. We didn’t take the trailer as we WERE NOT BUYING THIS PONY. We were visiting our friends and putting to rest my gut feeling about him so I could move on with the search for the next aged pony. On paper the Welsh pony is utterly unsuitable and not what anyone should buy for a 3-year old boy, at all, ever.”

Photo courtesy of Nicola Marins.

Famous last words.

“Long story short. We bought him 🙈 and then had to travel back a few weeks later to collect him. My son named him ‘Bushy’ (we have no idea why) and was so super excited that we knew it was the right thing to do even if it wasn’t the most sensible.

“My husband set about breaking him to be ‘safe’ ridden. Bushy has always wanted to do the right thing but with such inexperience he would often make the wrong choice and sometimes react before thinking. He is nervous of new people and still easily worried by men or heavily built people in particular. The farrier still has to make friends with him every visit and it also turns out he can a ** to catch and only my son was able to get near him, plus Bushy can take a head collar off. Although despite the annoyances he is always forgiven as something really rather wonderful happens when my son and Bushy are together, Bushy adores him and seems to just calm a little.”

Photo courtesy of Nicola Marins.

“Fast forward two years, Bushy took Valentino to his first Pony Club camp this summer, something that is also new to Bushy. Together they stole the District Commissioner’s heart and have been progressing very well — Bushy is now becoming a first ridden pony without mummy on the lead rein (Mummy still has kittens when watching), and we are all incredibly proud of the pony he has turned into.”

Photo courtesy of Nicola Marins.

“Wild Welsh Watsit into Bushy We Love You. I hope my son can find the skill required to sit and direct the jump as we have promised should he go to a mini major 128 championship we will buy a box and do it properly. London Olympia Horse Show we are watching you … In the birth of our second baby this year, Bushy has just been secured another 10 years in our family. I’m thrilled!!”

Photo courtesy of Nicola Marins.

What stories. Best of luck to both of these special partnerships!

Many thanks to Zandonà for sponsoring this fun giveaway. Check out Zandonà’s U.S. website for the full range of products distributed by Seadog Trading Company. Go Eventing!

Wednesday News & Notes

Relatable, honestly. If you missed Maggie Deatrick’s thoughtful breakdown of her life as a self-proclaimed ‘9-to-5 amateur’ last week, it’s definitely worth a look back. Many of us can relate to that hustle and grind lifestyle! As we enjoy some downtime in preparation for the upcoming new season, don’t forget to take a moment to worry just a little less and appreciate this sport we call home. Here’s to productive winters for us all!

National Holiday: National App Day

Weekend Preview: Don’t miss the USEA Annual Meeting & Convention, happening Friday through Sunday in Boston, Massachusetts. For those who are unable to attend, don’t forget to tune in to the live stream that is generously being offered once again. [Website][Live Stream]

News & Notes:

A productive thought while riding would be “I should focus on this canter depart during my test to set myself up for the 20-meter circle,” while a destructive thought might be “I’m worried my horse will spook at the flower box during my canter depart.” Learn about why riders need to be able to manage their productive and destructive thoughts in Daniel Stewart’s Tip of the Month. [USEA]

Two years ago, Holly Payne Caravella wasn’t sure if her veteran five-star horse, Never Outfoxed, would compete again. Read the incredible story of Holly’s “horse of a lifetime” and his return to competition from the brink of disaster. [Chronicle of the Horse]

Sure, it’s been done multiple times now. But should successfully cloned horses be able to compete? Some may be more curious about this controversial option, as the going rate is said to have dropped considerably in price. [Robb Report]

Wednesday Social Media:

Enjoy some incredible shots from Libby Law as she reflects on one of her favorite events each season, Mondial du Lion:

Re-Edit FABULOUSNESS from one of my favourite events – Mondial du Lion (FRA) – where the STARS of the future simply take…

Posted by Libby Law Photography – NZL on Monday, December 9, 2019

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Tuesday Video from Flexible Fit Equestrian: Welcome Back, Starr Witness

The #Ginja’s first time in the ring since Lima. Finished 5th today in the Welcome on to the 10k Mini-Prix on Saturday #jumping #eventer #hindendmuch #freak #🏅 #Aiken #starrwitness

Posted by DPEquestrian LLC on Thursday, December 5, 2019

The #Ginja made her return in style to finish 8th of 19 in her $10k mini-prix!!! She continues to impress stepping up to the 1.30’s with ease. #🏅 #starrwitness #jumper #eventer # double clear

Posted by DPEquestrian LLC on Saturday, December 7, 2019

Starr Witness, known as the Ginga Ninja to her friends, is back in business after a well deserved vacation following team gold at the Pan American Games this summer. The flashy mare made her return to competition show jumping over the weekend at Bruce’s Field. She and Doug Payne were 5th in the Welcome class and 8th in the $10,000 mini prix. Moving up to 1.30m with ease, we can’t wait to see what this pair accomplishes in 2020.

Flexible Fit Equestrian: Redefining Comfort & Quality at an Affordable Price. Learn more at www.ffequestrian.com.au.

FEI Releases New Dressage Tests for 2020

Oliver Townend and BALLAGHMOR CLASS during the dressage phase, Mitsubishi Motors Badminton Horse Trials, Gloucestershire, 2019

Just in time to start practicing for the upcoming season, the FEI has released updated dressage tests for all international levels for 2020. These new tests will replace the versions released in 2017.

View the 2020 FEI dressage tests here.

You may recall that the FEI elected to replace the “Overall Impression” mark with a “Harmony” mark for the new tests. This new mark will be weighted as a double coefficient.

Looking to the CCI5* tests, the CCI5*A test will reintroduce the counter canter movement that was removed from the 2017 version. While in the 2017 version of the A test had riders executing flying changes immediately following their short diagonals in medium canter, the 2020 A test will ask riders to ride a counter canter through the corner before doing a flying change at A. The extended canter in the 5*A test will also now be followed by counter canter rather than an immediate flying change.

For riders competing at the other FEI levels, you’ll notice several distinct changes in each test. It’s the off-season, so that means plenty of time for studying up. If you’re attending (or watching the live stream of) the upcoming USEA Annual Meeting & Convention this weekend, Marilyn Payne will be hosting a seminar to break down these new tests. “The New FEI Tests Demystified” will be held on Friday, December 13 from 10 am – 11 am EST. This session will also be a part of the Members Only live stream, which can be accessed by current USEA members here.

Pippa Funnell Named BT Action Woman of the Year

Pippa Funnell takes the top prize at the 2019 BT Action Woman Awards. Photo courtesy of BT.

When eventing hits the mainstream it’s always a little bit like Christmas has come early, no matter when in the year it happens – but the timing couldn’t be much better as we see one of our own take a major British sporting award this week.

Pippa Funnell needs no introduction to horsey households, though viewers and voters of the BT Action Woman Awards may have found her a less familiar face among her competitors, among whom featured record-breaking runner Dina Asher-Smith, top jockey Bryony Frost, 35-time World Championship gold medal winning para-cyclist Dame Sarah Storey. But the longevity of Pippa’s career, which saw the former – and first – Rolex Grand Slam winner take a fairytale win at the Land Rover Burghley Horse Trials this autumn, resonated with the public, and the enormously popular rider was crowned the 2019 BT Action Woman of the Year in a ceremony presided over by presenter and sporting figurehead Clare Balding, a long-time friend and supporter of both Pippa and of the equestrian industry.

“I’ve had the most amazing career and a long career, but any person’s career over the space of 35 years isn’t just going to be about good days,” said Pippa in a candid speech after her victory. “There have been a lot of tough days, hard days when things don’t go your way or you have injuries. I have very much questioned quite a few times if I carry on in the sport. What’s special is that I know that commitment.”

Pippa Funnell raises her silverware at Burghley. Photo by Nico Morgan Media.

This season, which saw Pippa step up at the eleventh hour to ride on the silver medal-winning British team at the European Championships in Luhmühlen, has seen a remarkable upswing in fortunes for the hard-working rider, who last won a five-star sixteen years prior.

“Back in 2003 I won quite a lot of awards,” she recalled. “Of course, I appreciated them all because I was on the crest of a wave back then, but I think because I’ve been gone for so long and not had this sort of recognition I think it’s like I’ve been given a second chance to enjoy it all over again.”

Pippa’s win, which saw her beat out seven impressive competitors for the top honour, comes just a smattering of days after eventers took an almost clean sweep of the NAF Horse & Hound Awards, winning Rider of the Year (Piggy French), Groom of the Year (Amy Phillips, head girl for Piggy French), Horse of the Year (Vanir Kamira, winner of Badminton Horse Trials with – you guessed it – Piggy French), Moment of the Year (Pippa Funnell’s Burghley win), and Amateur Rider of the Year (Adam Harvey). We’ll raise a glass to that.

The Ultimate Finish: Reflecting on a Weekend at the RRP Thoroughbred Makeover

For 673 accepted trainers, the journey to the Retired Racehorse Project‘s 2019 RPP Thoroughbred Makeover was a journey of epic proportions. Between the beginning of the year and the Makeover, which took place in October at the Kentucky Horse Park, four of those trainers have blogged during their journeys, including their triumphs and their heartbreaks, successes and failures, for Eventing Nation readers. Read more from EN’s 2019 Thoroughbred Makeover Bloggers: Lindsey BurnsHillary McMichaelClare MansmannJennifer Reisenbichler. Want to become a RRP Trainer for the 2020 Thoroughbred Makeover? Click here to find out how. 

No trip to the Makeover is complete without a Rolex sign photo!

Golden leaves drifted over walkways, hot wind scuttled through the barns, and dust whirled up from under the hooves of 400 thoroughbreds. There was a battle of the seasons raging in Kentucky as trainers from sundry different locations bathed and braided and polished their OTTBs.

Fans were hung, bags of ice were bought, bottles of water consumed at an astonishing rate, and then suddenly after two days of preliminary competition came to a close, so did the record-setting heat. Friday morning dawned cool and crisp and the line to buy sweatshirts at the RRP booth seemed to stretch around the indoor.

Autumn had arrived, and what a fitting emphasis as the culmination of months of hard work and dreaming. There is something I love about autumn. It’s an honest season that looks for the good in things. It admits to the end of summer and the end of the growing season, but it celebrates instead of wailing. The trees glow crimson and saffron, the light takes on an amber hue. The very earth seems to take a deep breath, relishing in the accomplishments of the brighter seasons and preparing to regenerate through the winter so that the following year can again be filled with growth and harvest. Maybe I personify too much, but centuries of poetry seem to support my case.

A couple of Arizona/Idaho representatives!

If I had more of a poetical inclination you might be subjugated to lines in iambic pentameter paying homage to the #TBMakeover experience; luckily for you I’m more of a prose lady. I could give you a play by play of how Crash performed, but that could be rather boring. On second thought though, maybe it wouldn’t be boring.

We didn’t win any fancy ribbons, we didn’t place top twenty, we didn’t even snag the top California bred award. What we did do was laugh, and smile, and cheer on friends, and have many wet eye moments watching others live out a big dream. Crash was so brave on his long long walks from the barns to the Rolex stadium and the head of the lake. He was happy to stand around on the buckle while I talked with friends new and old. He even got a five out of five on rideability in competitive trail (or slow motion eventing for baby horses, as I call it)!

Dontcha wish your horse could dressage like mine? Dontcha?

Crash earned many 7s on our dressage test impressing everyone with how fancy he can be, but we also scored as low as a 3.5. Apparently you aren’t supposed to fling your head in the air and bolt into the canter — must have missed that memo. At one point both the judge and I were laughing mid-dressage test. Crash had finally relaxed in the canter, brought his head back down out of the ozone layer, and then promptly tripped and almost fell on his face.

I could have been frustrated and sad that we had no shot of making it in to the finale, and maybe I was for a moment as I know in my heart that Crash is a nice enough horse to win at dressage every time (after he gains some maturity). I’ll be honest here, I was disappointed with myself, falling right into that trap of comparison. I thought to myself, maybe I shouldn’t be training horses if I can’t get at least a 70% in their initial dressage tests, maybe I’d failed Crash, maybe I was a failure. Luckily before things got any more bleak I remembered that I had eaten next to nothing and we were nearing 4pm. One chicken, bacon, ranch sandwich and bananas foster blended coffee (from the awesome KHP concessions stand) later, I’d regained a healthy perspective and could focus on the positives again. Forget being hangry, I get hangpressed.

It’s hard to stay upset while at the Makeover. There are just so many smiling faces. I’ve been to a lot of shows where those smiles are hard to find, people milling about focused on nothing but blue ribbons and being upset about not getting them. The focus is far removed from blue ribbons at the makeover, instead it’s focused on building your horse up for a bright future. On top of building up successful horses the makeover builds up successful people! People who arrive strangers leave as friends, instead of worrying about giving away an advantage, knowledge is shared about everything, training tips, grooming tips, confidence tips, etc. The cross discipline camaraderie should be #lifegoals for equestrians everywhere!

He’s amazing!

Another thing I’ve noticed at the makeover is that people don’t take being there for granted. We are a thankful bunch. We understand the journey to get there and a year’s worth of work can get sidetracked by an abscess before you can blink. We can’t reroute to a different show in two weeks, or I guess we could but it won’t be another Makeover. People save and scrape and skimp to get there. Some of us are serial attendees and for some it’s a once in a lifetime experience. I don’t think that pulling into the Kentucky Horse Park with a horse in my trailer will ever lose its thrill. I’m so thankful for every laugh, every memory, and every friend that the makeover has created.

Also lots of great memories with my dad and step mom (the lady behind the camera in all these photos)

If there is something we can learn from the Makeover and from the Retired Racehorse Project itself, it’s this: Choose a dream, chase the dream, surround yourself with people who also chase dreams. From four horses to 400, from local to international, from the sport of kings to the kings of sport, thank you to everyone at RRP for teaching us how to bring dreams to fruition. Thank you for promoting the Thoroughbred. Thank you for the education, thank you for the platform, thank you for the experience.

Don’t forget to keep track of important dates, updated rules, etc for next year’s makeover at tbmakeover.org.

We All Need to Be Nicer: An Open Letter to My Young Rider Peers

Area II Young Riders show support for a teammate at the 2018 North American Youth Championships. Photo by Leslie Wylie.

Dear Young Riders,

We all need to be a lot nicer.

It seems simple doesn’t it? It seems like something we should already be. But kindness is not a practice embraced by everyone in our community.

I’m talking about the way we as young riders treat each other. While there are always murmurs of teenage drama and bullying in our sport, I haven’t seen a serious attempt to address a problem that is turning so many talented riders away from riding and competing. The recent push from SafeSport to end bullying is definitely movement in the right direction, but many of the situations we encounter don’t qualify as reportable offences. Rather, we experience them as small moments — riders engaging in mean gossip behind one another’s backs, or passive-aggressive interactions, or cruel social media comments —  that add up to a big problem that needs to be addressed.

This is where I want to say something. Because there are individuals that need to hear this. Honestly, I needed to hear this. 

Firstly, we are blessed to participate in the sport that we do. We are incredibly lucky to sit on the animals that we do and compete in the shows that we can. We are lucky to have dedicated trainers, supportive friends and families. Many young riders are aware of exactly how fortunate we are; however, so many of us don’t behave consistently with this acknowledgment.

We are so fortunate, so why do we complain and compete with one another? Why are constantly judging and critiquing? The number of times I have heard other young riders make comments such as “that’s what SHE’S wearing?” “she picked THAT horse?” “what IS that ugly saddle pad?” is appalling. Even more frightening is the number of times I’ve found myself making the same judgmental comments. It’s unhealthy, mean behavior. It benefits no one and hurts everyone. It degrades the character of those making the comments and hurts the esteem of those commented on.

The reality is that our sport is on shaky footing: we’ve narrowly held our spot in the Olympic Games and events are closing from lack of entries. How can we expect it to survive into our future if we are forcing more and more riders out with our lack of support and acceptance? We need more people to compete because they love it and want to be advocates for eventing. Driving riders to avoid competitions simply from fear of their peers is a tragedy, and detrimental to the future of our sport. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what horse you’re sitting on, what show coat you’re wearing or what level you’re riding. We are all riding because we love our sport, our horses and our community. I think it is of the utmost importance that we make sure to return to these values when interacting with each other. 

Secondly, I propose that we should strive to ride for the love of the sport, not the popularity or attention is grants us. We, as the upcoming generation, owe it to the industry to prioritize our sport, not our social lives. We should be focusing less on our Instagram followers, and more on our genuine love of riding horses.

Our generational obsession with social acceptance and gratification has drawn us away from our “reason to ride” and towards a social game much resembling the plot of a bad high school movie. The neglect of the sport gets even worse when two riders “stop being friends.” I have seen riders intentionally try to sabotage each other over arguments, as well as saying or posting petty things via social media just to “get back at” their peer. This behavior is both unsportsmanlike and unprofessional.

Despite being kids, we have a responsibility as riders to behave graciously and professionally. This means respecting our individual rights to a good ride and leaving drama at home. For so many of us, our barns are an escape from other social settings; it is not fair to turn barns into mini “high school cliques” as well. But the blame does not fall solely on young riders — it is also trainers’ responsibility to call out students who are forgetting the impact their behavior has. I implore adults to stick up for the future of our sport by culling nasty comments and petty behavior when it presents itself. The events and barn environments should be places of comradery, safety, and ultimately, happiness. 

Finally, we all just need to be more accepting. More accepting of each other’s ambitions, aspirations and commitments. Not all of us want to compete at every show and ride every day, but that doesn’t mean we can’t participate as a hobby. Some of us want to ride professionally and compete as a career: we can still be friends with those who prefer to stay amateurs. It really doesn’t matter why any of us ride, what matters is that we all do. We love our horses and we should love being around each other.

I would also like to add this for any young rider that needs to hear it: going to NAYC won’t make or break you. It isn’t the end-all-be-all, and you’ll be OK if you pursue other opportunities instead. I see so many kids treating each other badly out of competitiveness to make an NAYC team. It might not seem like it, but the friendships you are ruining will mean more to you in the long-term than the theoretical medal you’re fighting so hard for. 

We all can be friends; we all should be friends. If we don’t make changes now, we’ll grow up to be adults that are just as divided as we are as teenagers. It pains me to see even trainers — the mentors we look up to — competing with one another, outside of a business or competitive aspect. It hurts to see adults mimicking the same behaviors of my less mature peers, and negative attitudes are contagious. We as young riders have a chance to change this — all we must do is be kinder.

Young riders, we are the future. If we can be nicer to each other now, we will be nicer to each other as adults. If we can be kinder adults, we will make the greater industry a more cooperative and positive place. We owe it to the riders younger than us now and to the young riders we will influence as adults, to be better people. We can change the way we behave to generate real comradery and genuine friendships. There is no need for us to be focusing on anything other than improving ourselves as riders and doing right by our horses. I really believe that if we can get back to riding for the pure love of the sport, we will influence a more positive and empowered community. 

Sincerely, 

A Concerned Friend